Australian model Ellie Gonsalves, 33, ignited a social media storm on Nov. 26 by sharing 117 reasons why she chooses not to have children on Instagram.
Backlash Hits Home: Husband Shares Disturbing Messages: Gonsalves’ husband, who manages her business, revealed the extent of the backlash they faced. Strangers sent messages suggesting divorce and even expressing wishes for harm. Scutts detailed the disturbing nature of the messages, ranging from death threats to attacks on Gonsalves’ character.
Origin of the List: Defending Against Invasive Questions:
According to Scutts, the list was a response to Gonsalves’ frustration with people not accepting her reasons for not wanting children. The top reason cited in the list was the lifelong responsibility of raising a child. Gonsalves aimed to express the deeper motivations behind her decision.
Shared Decision: Couple Stands United on Child-Free Choice:
The couple, married in March and together for 15 years, made the decision not to have children eight years ago. Scutts highlighted the personal challenges they anticipate, such as handling potential bullying in school, as reasons behind their choice.
Navigating Uncomfortable Conversations: Impact on Relationship:
Scutts shed light on the awkwardness the couple faces when questioned about their decision, describing the dilemma of deciding how to respond. The shared commitment to a child-free life has become a defining aspect of their relationship, prompting uncomfortable discussions with those who may not understand their choice.